fear conquers all…..
2 reasons that have caused me to throw away endless possiblities and limit the remaining ones:
1. I rather hang out with friends, male or female, I’m 31, I’ve been in a 2 1/2 year, 5 year, and 1 1/2 year relationship. You do the math. I don’t know why I don’t serial date, I will not go on a date or except a drink from someone that I don’t want to, not if I’m bored, lonely, broke, depressed, or on the rebound. I could of met a lot of funny, interesting great people.
My reasoning is I don’t want to waste your time or mine or lead anyone on. But how do I know that by the third date & might totally adore this person & what if the unthinkable, he doesn’t even ask me for a second date.
Positively thinking, I denied a lot of potentially good people, who I could of liked, if I only bothered wasting my time.
2. I settle.
and did I mention I “unconsciously” sabotage anything that seems too good to be true……
realistically it probably is, but for someone who believes in the knight with the horse, I think I’m terrified of being deliriously in love.
With that said, I have been blindsided more than once, the first time, never saw it coming…
Never say never.
November 19th, 2005 at 1:57 pm
People who are insecure have attitudes that sometimes may be confused for confidence or someone we cant have. You must recognize this in people before going forward with a relationship. These attitudes are used to mask their insecurities. Why do we want what we feel we cant have? A man with true confidence is a man who will love you for who you are and not for how you make him feel about himself. He needs to feel good about himself on his own. Feel good about yourself and you will shine with confidence. Dont ever try to be what someone else wants you to be. Be who you are. You are fiery, beautiful, intellegent redhead who does not take shit from someone who has been scraped off the bottom of a shoe. Love your big sister
Melissa
November 19th, 2005 at 4:19 pm
Yeah, I’M BACK!!!!!